Apparently there's a lot of confusion as to what or isn't MMC.
Simple MIDI integration is NOT MMC. The Magic 260 doesn't support MMC, merely scene triggering, which is a function of MIDI via note on messages.
MMC is used to control tape decks/MTR's. To use this, the MTC needs to be stripped or have an abilility to read/write time code, often SMPTE via pre-striing. The timecode will drive the sequencer/DAW/NLE, while MMC will be used to automate start, stop, rewind, fast forward and thing like punching in and out. It's interesting to see a reel to reel start "spinning" out of control and then magically stop and the playback starts. With more modern devices(like the ADAT that has a method of embedding SMPTE), it works a lot better. Of course, there's stil the delay as things wind to their appropriate location, but it works. With most things going non-linear digital(read: not tape based), MMC has fallen off a bit.
Now that we've resolved that confusion, let's get back to work, shall we?
Using MyDMX, sync ain't gonna happen unless you bring MIDI to the table, and even then, sync is gonna suck. You do have viable options, but as I said, it wont be flawless. Just make sure you end each song sequence with your stage wash scene with no time limitation on it. This gives you endless time to deal with the next batch.
I get the whole need to fight the system. My in-laws do this constantly. They'll fight so damn hard to do things the wrong way, despite the cost in order to guarantee results contrary to what their end goals are. It's amusing, annoying and has driven their family business into the ground.
Now, for less than the cost of a new HDR, it's time to move on. Your choices are still limited, but all you need to do is buy an affordable laptop and an audio interface(lots of audio outs is nice!) that hopefully has a MIDI interface. These can be had for less than $100 if you go USB. You'll also need some sequencing software, such as Sonar, which even the lowest version will be over-kill for what you need. You can use the audio inputs to import your existing tracks. Then, you can drop in a MIDI track and program your MIDI triggers that go to MyDMX. You also get a ton more options.
Oh, MyDMX will need to run into another computer and will need a MIDI interface. I mention this now because I'd said that like a zillion times on here.
No offense about those HDR's, but I've seen thousands of those meet their deaths with bands. They aren't meant for that application. But, feel free to continue to use it, but i's not the right tool for the job. This is even more true when you're trying to step up the game.
Option 1: MyDMX again. Make your scenes for your ENTIRE show and all your songs.
Use your Sonar progam for MIDI purposes or at least for this discussion(it's what I've seen used a lot, but ProTools is more prevalent). You can open each song one by one in Sonar, and the song session contains a MIDI track that corresponds to what you want done in MyDMX, be it trigger one big complex scene per song, or lots of scenes per song, it doesn't matter. But again, this is a 2 machine operation.
Option 2:
If yo go with like Compu Show, you can shrink your footprint down to 1 laptop. This is where your show as one file makes more sense, and then you can skip around to the song you want. Label the hell out of everything. You can hard loop a at least a 2 bank MIDI interface. You'll want to use one bank for say, Sonar, and the other for EASY Show within Compu Show. You can put each song in its own session file in both Easy Show and Sonar or Pro Tools, but then you have to do 2 opens, which you don't want to do. You can adjust by adjusting your MTC start times in Sonar for what the "big session" file in Easy Show has associated with it. Or, you can just use Sonar to trigger scenes in Compu show directly, which works fine too. It really depends on your end results that you're after.
You can just use CompuShow for the whole thing(with Easy Show to handle your audio playback), but I don't recommend this because the audio handling capabilities are very minimal. You WILL need to set your Sound Device to be your audio interface as your default audio device as there's no real audio routing capability within the Compu Show product.
The thing is with Compu Show, it's proven to me to be a very stable platform. Another key factor is that with how it handles MIDI and even MTC(depending on what you want to do), it's very robust AND can run in the background. With MyDMX, it MUST remain the foreground application. If not, it can cause wonky things to happen at times.
So, lets get aware of what MMC is and isn't. MMC is transport control and punch in/out automation. Learn your terminology and expand your knowledge. But what we're talking about isn't MMC. It may seem like it, but it's not. Let's get off the MMC road, because it's leading you in the wrong direction.
Instead, let's get into the proper mindset. There's also going to be some costs involved as things are swapped out and upgraded.
Trust me when I say this:
I'm doing what I say and saying what I do, and working with some f the best in the biz who are going to back me up, as I back them up, and I make their tours happen.